Emails from dead friends

I have an e-mail sitting in my inbox from an acquaintance who died a few months ago. He sent it about two months before his death.

Every time I see the message I think about him and I am afraid that if I erase the message it might erase my memory of him.

I experience this same problem when other friends die and I leave their names in my cell phone. Sometimes I scroll past their numbers with my finger hovering just above the "call" button.

If the numbers are still there, I can play with the idea that their voices are just a phone call away from me.

Liz Salmi

Liz Salmi is Communications & Patient Initiatives Director for OpenNotes at Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center in Boston. Over the last 15 years Liz has been: a research subject; an advisor in patient stakeholder groups; a leader in “patient engagement” research initiatives; and an innovator, educator and investigator in national educational and research projects. Today her work focuses on involving patients and care partners in the co-design of research and research dissemination. It is rumored Liz was the drummer in a punk rock band.

https://thelizarmy.com
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